Marriage, a timeless institution, is a cornerstone of society, yet its dynamics and longevity vary greatly across cultures and generations. Let's explore the trends and statistics surrounding marriage and divorce, highlighting both challenges and inspiring examples.
Long-lasting marriages are a rare sight in the USA. While there's no single definitive answer to the exact data/statistics, here are some insights:
Historically, the numbers are telling. In 1950, there were approximately 1.6 million marriages and 264,000 divorces in the USA. Although the number of divorces seems substantial, most couples didn't opt for divorce back then. Fast-forward to 2023, the data is alarming: 2,361,030 marriages versus 992,677 divorces.
The present average duration of a marriage in the USA is complex, but statistics suggest it's less than 10 years, with a divorce rate ranging from 35-50%. Common reasons for divorce include lack of commitment, excessive conflict and arguing, financial problems, and extramarital affairs. On the other hand, long-lasting marriages often attribute their success to expressing positive feelings, managing emotions effectively, building a strong foundation of friendship and companionship, and practicing forgiveness and understanding.
India is also witnessing a rise in divorces. A report from Bangalore Mirror states that 195,000 divorce cases were filed in the last 5 years. This figure is concerning, considering the cultural significance of marriage in India as a sacred and lifelong commitment.
In conclusion, while marriage trends and divorce rates present challenges, there are valuable lessons to be learned from success.
I'm happy to share a heartwarming video of a woman who has had a long-lasting marriage. The video is from December 2024 with my daughter, Chaitra Suresh Rao. This 95-year-old woman and her 97-year-old husband celebrated their diamond jubilee anniversary in 2023, serving as a classic example of a successful, enduring relationship.
She also suggests avoiding medicines as far as possible for a long life.
December 2024 Allen,Texas
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