In today's fast-paced world, the relationship between parents and children is facing significant challenges, leading to a growing rift between the two generations. This disconnect can be attributed to various factors, and understanding these reasons is crucial for bridging the gap. Of late, we are experiencing a rift between parents and children, which may be true to a great extent and needs to be accepted. While this might be natural in cities, it's not as prevalent in other parts of Bharat. The reasons for this rift and its acceptance are:
From the Parents' Side:
Lack of adapting to current circumstances
Putting excessive pressure for studies
Lack of continuous communication with children
Lack of understanding children's requirements
Interference in most day-to-day happenings of children
Expecting fulfillment of unwarranted demands
Keeping great expectations from children
Expecting/demanding caretaking during old age
Comparing children to others or their peers
Not respecting children's boundaries or individuality
Failing to apologise or make amends when wrong
From the Children's Side:
Not understanding parents' requirements
Pressure of office work
Expecting parents to adjust beyond their capabilities
Marriage shifting responsibility towards spouse and children
Not being able to take care of unhealthy parents due to persistent problems until parents' demise
Not being aware of parents' circumstances during their younger days
Taking parents for granted or not showing appreciation
Not making time for regular visits or communication
Expecting financial support without being responsible with finances
Disregarding parents' values or traditions without understanding their significance
In conclusion, the parent-child rift is a complex issue with multiple contributing factors. By acknowledging and addressing these differences, we can work towards building stronger, more empathetic relationships. By fostering open communication and understanding, we can bridge the gap between generations.
Ultimately, despite advocating for bridging the gap, I believe that the inherent selfishness on both sides – children's and parents' – creates an impasse. It's as if both parties are running on parallel tracks, like rail lines that never converge in practical reality.
P.S. Let's set aside exceptional cases within individual families for the sake of this discussion.
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