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The multiple (8) marriages of Elizabeth Taylor, including her two marriages to Richard Burton, are a matter of public record. As a celebrity, her personal life was subject to intense media attention. However, my intention is not to focus on her personal life. Rather, I would like to explore the practice of holding two separate marriage ceremonies in respect of the same couple, often due to regional differences between the families. This trend is more commonly observed in love marriages.
I must emphasize that I do not support such proposals just because the two families can afford such marriage functions.
The institution of marriage is sacred, and conducting multiple marriage ceremonies for the same couple undermines its sanctity. Consequently, when two families with differing religious affiliations are involved, it is essential that they find common ground, compromise, and agree upon a single, unified marriage ceremony that honors their shared values and traditions.
ನಮ್ಮ ಹಿಂದೂ ಸಂಪ್ರದಾಯದ ಶಾಸ್ತ್ರದ ಮದುವೆ ಚೆನ್ನ. ಮದುವೆ ಎಷ್ಟು ಸರಳವೋ ಅಷ್ಟೇ ಚೆನ್ನ. ಆಹ್ವಾನ 30 ರಿಂದ 40 ಸಂಬಂಧಿಗಳಿಗೆ ಮೀಸಲು ಇರಲಿ.
ಮದುವೆಯನ್ನು ಅತ್ಯಲ್ಪ ಖರ್ಚಿನಿಂದ ದೇವಸ್ಥಾನದಲ್ಲಿ ಮಾಡಿಕೊಳ್ಳುವುದಕ್ಕೆ ಮಾತ್ರ ನನ್ನ ಸಮ್ಮತ.
ಇದರಲ್ಲಿ ಮದುವೆಯ ಹುಡುಗನ ಪಾತ್ರ ಅತಿ ಮುಖ್ಯ. ಅವನು ಬದಲಾಗಬೇಕು. ಅವನ ಮಾತನ್ನು ಎರಡೂ ಕಡೆಯ ಕುಟುಂಬಸ್ಥರು ಕೇಳೇ ಕೇಳುತ್ತಾರೆ. ಹುಡುಗ ಸಂಯಮದಿಂದ ನಿಭಾಯಿಸಬೇಕು.
ಇದು ನನ್ನ ಅಭಿಮತ.
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Let me add here a few lines on the upbringing of children.
In my opinion, parents play a pivotal role in shaping their child's formative years, leaving an indelible mark that lasts until they become young adults. As individuals embark on their journey of independence, pursuing higher education or careers, their surroundings, peer groups, societal norms, and prevailing atmosphere significantly influence their growth. This process initiates the formation of their distinct identity.
The newfound individuality, moulded by their earlier experiences, may give rise to perspectives that diverge from those of their parents, relatives, or society. These differing views might not be readily accepted in the family and/or society, leading to a delicate balance between personal beliefs and societal expectations.
In general, many individuals tend to conform to a blend of societal and parental expectations.
Few individuals formulate their own unique opinions and principles to guide their future lives.
If young individuals stray from the path, it can be challenging to alter the attitudes they've already adopted, underscoring the importance of early guidance and positive influences.
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